My husband once babysat three kids for eight hours and got paid a mere ten dollars. Not that he’s still bitter or anything... But I digress. I have hired a babysitter for this Saturday night. I have only left James a few times and it was only with family members for a short amount of time. But this weekend I am leaving James with an unfamiliar babysitter to go to a Valentine’s Day dinner and dance. I will be gone for about three hours and he is only seven months. As a new mom I am unfamiliar about the market for paying a babysitter. How much do you pay a babysitter? Do you pay based on a crafted algorithm consisting of the number of children, their ages, and the amount of time babysitting?
To do this for my circumstances, I have 1 kid, age 7 months, for 3 hours. But he will be sleeping for half the time (let’s hope) so I can divide it into 1.5 hours, right?
And then I have to factor in the fact that I have a fridge stocked with soda and ice cream so that of course reduces that inconvenience of babysitting. And we said her boyfriend could come so that is easily 5 bucks back in our pockets! I had bfs babysit with me all the time. It was like being paid to make out for a couple hours (Just kidding Brian… (But seriously it was great.)). And we have good movies and a wii so that’s another deduction out of her paycheck. But then I don’t have cable TV so that will be more money back to the babysitter.
But you always have to account for the crying factor which is always a variable depending on baby James’ mood. (Brian subscribes to the school of thought that one should pay crying insurance—which is a sum of money paid upfront as insurance/incentive in case of the horrific crying). We are debating if our lack of income should be a contributing factor on how we pay the babysitter. Brian thinks that we should try paying in kind with wii games or church pamphlets---I said no. He even suggests that my YW's medallion could cover the whole night. Nice try honey.
We appreciate any and all input. We have four days to figure this out! Help!